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Guest Post by PJ Whiteley + Competition

Close of Play

‘Close of Play’ is PJ Whiteley’s first novel.  Below is an interesting guest post from the author.


Men don’t ‘do’ romantic drama. Or do we?

Recently, I joined the Romantic Novelists’ Association. As expected, there are rather more women than men. I thought that the ratio might be 85-15 or 90-10. In fact, it’s more like 99-1, and a few of the male card-carrying members use female pseudonyms. There is a similar story in the readership profile. The extent to which the cover and other aspects of marketing of my first novel Close of Play, a romantic comedy, have been tilted towards the expected female audience has been a fascinating learning experience, as my publisher applies the finishing touches.

If you read the mini-biographies on the Romantic Novelists Association’s site, many relate how they grew up as bookworms, typically devoted to fantasy tales and romantic melodrama. My CV is very different. I didn’t read Jane Austen or Jean Plaidy as a boy. I played sport, read about sport, made Airfix kits and watched war movies. The books I enjoyed usually had a male lead figure and a fair amount of sport or danger. So it was a long and very indirect route by which I came to pen a romantic novel in my early 50s. My childhood influences can hardly have had any impact at all.

Or so it would seem. But if one uses an expanded definition of romantic drama, my early years were filled with the most heart-rending, achingly emotional tales, often rendered by alpha males. Their names included Mick Jagger, Bob Dylan and John Lennon. There were a lot of tears and much insecurity; probably more direct soul-baring than any female scribe would dare, until Alanis Morrissette came along. Above all, these and other singers expressed an intense longing; this desire really to know a woman as well as love her.

So what is it about songs that gives blokes permission to get in touch with our inner feelings (or any other feelings, for that matter)? And why do we struggle when it’s on the printed page or at the pictures?

I’m afraid I can’t provide definitive answers, only a few observations. There is something about the ‘will they/won’t they’ drama that struggles to hold the male attention as the main or sole story arc; especially in a movie featuring Kate Hudson or Reese Witherspoon because, of course, we know they will in the end, after a break-up 20 minutes from full time as she discovers the secret that he had kept hidden (I still enjoy them, mind – guilty pleasure).

Humour helps. I might not have struggled with Far From the Madding Crowd at O-Level if Gabriel Oak hadn’t been so dour and earnest. Or a bit of political intrigue or philosophical depth. Or at least a car chase. Somehow, the question: ‘Is he The One for me?’ is not enough to hold our interest for 90 minutes or 288 pages. But for three and a half minutes, with a soaring chorus, and a macho guitar solo to come, we can give our passion a full-throated roar. We do have a romantic heartbeat, but it’s detected in different ways.

Close of Play has many ‘romcom’ features. I make no apology. It has a slightly different slant in that it’s from the man’s point of view. The two main male characters have been a bit sniffy towards love n romance n girly stuff in their early adult years. They prefer playing cricket and drinking beer. But each of them aches for the woman they really, really want, and fear that it might all be too late. I hope the female readers will be touched by their longing and forgive them their mistakes. And maybe, just maybe, the occasional bloke will read it, disguised inside GQ magazine, as he listens to Blood on the Tracks via his headphones.

PJ Whiteley, March 2015.


About PJ Whiteley


PJ Whiteley, who writes non-fiction as Philip Whiteley, is an experienced author, principally about management. He has written extensively about how low wages are bad for business, as part of a bid to try to convince economists that society consists of people. Taking a break from this Quixotic task, he has turned his hand to romantic comedy, seizing on the potential of men preferring to play or watch sport than talk about their feelings and stuff.

Close of Play is the first novel, centring on perennial themes of the human condition: love, loss, hope, life choices and that nagging feeling in the back of the mind that you may not fully be up to date with how your team is doing.

PJ Whiteley’s boyhood ambition was to represent Yorkshire Cricket Club. He gave up playing as an amateur a few years ago when facing the quicker bowlers became a bit too tricky, but still plays five-a-side football. He works from home full time as an author and is married to a sex therapist, so things could have turned out worse.



To celebrate the publication of ‘Close of Play’ I am running a competition in which 10 lucky people will win a paperback copy of this book.  To enter just leave a comment telling me what you think is romantic.


Terms and Conditions 

This competition is open worldwide.

The closing date is 11:59 p.m. on the 16th April 2015.

The winners will be randomly picked and notified within 7 days of the closing date.  Their details will be passed on to Urbane Publications Limited who will send out the prizes.


Good luck! 🙂


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15 thoughts on “Guest Post by PJ Whiteley + Competition

  1. Sue Harrison on said:

    Been given support even when looking and feeling absolutely awful due to ill health


  2. tracyshephard on said:

    a romantic gesture is when my husband says ‘here, i’ll do that’


  3. Romance is reading a book I like so we can talk about it together


  4. The most romantic thing that has happened to me is my Husband proposing 10 years to the day he met me. Romance is all in the little things that can be done often, like buying small but thoughtful gifts / cards. Or doing thoughtful nice things for the one you love, like massaging their feet, offering to do the chores for the day / evening. Telling them you love them, and why.
    The book sounds like it will be really good and nice that it is from a man’s point of view.


  5. I’m not very good at “romantic”, so much of it seems fake and artificial to me. It’s not the roses and violins that matter, it’s the little things like my husband making home made soup for me when I’m not feeling well.


  6. Romance written from a man’s point of view sounds like an interesting read and I look forward to seeing what the author thinks is romantic. For me it’s about someone caring enough to see when you’re struggling and doing something to help without having to be asked. Having a meal cooked once in a while would be the ultimate in romantic gestures for me but it’s one I’m yet to receive 😉


  7. To me romance is all the small gestures you carry out for your partner, all in the pursuit of keeping them incredibly happily.


  8. Romance is sharing an activity with someone you love.


  9. Romantic is when after a crappy day you have someone arms ready to hold you & comfort you. Someone who’s there in bad as well as good times.


  10. I think it’s romantic when someone is showing you you’re loved. Every gesture is romantic and romance can be in everyday things, it doesn’t have to be grand, it has to be real and pure.


  11. We don’t really do ‘romance’, but romantic, to me, means being able to be yourself and being loved for that.


  12. jessica hickey on said:

    Romantic is being able to tell each other anything without being afraid of what theyll think, its being so comfortable around someone that you can truly just be yourself


    • Hi Jessica,

      I have been trying to get in touch with you as you were one of the winners. I have emailed you twice, they could well be in your spam folder. Could you contact me as soon as possible please?

      Thank you



  13. Rhonda on said:

    When my husbands eyes light up when he sees me takes my breath away.


  14. Many thanks to everyone who entered this competition. I have now randomly picked the winners and notified them of their win, so do check your inboxes.

    Best wishes

    Sonya 🙂


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